Dating man older old pics on dating sites


28-Oct-2017 12:45

At 20, she had me and for the next three years, my father harassed her over money (she made much more than him); he also let her know that, while she may have had straight As in high school, he, a junior high dropout, was the smarter of the pair.

By 24, my mother was divorced and saddled with a kid while my dad returned to being an eligible bachelor who continued dating young adults.

Dating much younger women seems to stem from these men's unhealthy and unrealistic obsession with youth – perhaps a way to stave off fears of their own mortality.

In fact, such a lopsided romance is my origin story.

As with Bob, anytime I responded to the older men online, thanking them for their interest and reiterating my age-range preference (which clearly specified 31 to 42), I was offered a patronizing lecture on the value of an open mind and a laundry list of reasons they are young at heart, complete with winking references to their still-spry sexual prowess.

I was also inundated with examples of famous couples with large age differences, in case I didn't know them.

I thanked him for his interest, but let him know that that wouldn't be happening. He asked me to reconsider and retain “an open mind.” I felt frustration and anger boil up inside me as I looked at this man three decades my senior, who had manipulated me into a meeting under false pretences and then dismissed my refusal of his advances as close-minded. Instead, I ignored his emails until he finally gave up.

Being hit on by men who are considerably older was not new to me.

Plus, being so young, she was “more likely to put up with him,” he said.I met Bob at a restaurant on a summer afternoon in 2014.